I like to use BLO, 2-3 coats, then followed by Tung oil. When all is dry maybe some wax. Takes a long time but then I am usually not in a hurry. I try not to use stain because I very easily can make a total mess of it.
I like the organicness of oil, whether or not it is better for you than other finishes.
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