Son and DIL is doing the feast. First a few Tapas, boiled srimp, sausage, chips. then the Turkey, stuffing (yuck) sweat potatoes with brown sugar coating, mashed potatoes, gravy, rolls, etc. Finish with wife's pumpkin pie and DIL's pecan pie. Some leftovers come home with us. All is great.
As a young kid my Aunt always had the "Big Spread" at her house. Lots of relatives, friends coming and going. Turkey, home made rolls, Ham, Quail (fresh from the morning hunt with Granddad), Chicken and noodles (home made noodles, my favorite) on and on and on. Dining room table pushed against on wall, full of all the good stuff for everyone. Uncle John had the bar set up in the kitchen. Good memories.
Have a great one however you do it. As an uncle use to say eat up and enjoy next year might be spam and soda crackers.