Memory box

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This was one of those projects like many of us have done that has an element of sadness.  Following the death of my friend's son, I wanted to make something for her and the family.  I decided on a memory box.  

I had "issues" with my first attempt (concerns that I had not allowed for wood movement in the top and bottom when the miters slipped during glueup) so started over.  Various issues again arose with my planning so that I need to resort to using hinges rather than a friction fit top.  I spend days (literally) working on getting the hinges installed. Had to drill and dowel a couple of times to allow for adjustment of the holes.  Through it all, I kept reflecting on difficulties and how moving forward and persevering is the best course of action (one of those life metaphors that woodworking provides).  I added an initial on the top using a template I cut out of some hardboard, using an inlay router kit.  Also did some woodburning of a song from his funeral.  

His life was short (17 years of age) with many physical and health challenges, but yet he is remembered for his smile, as noted in his obituary:  "Christian was known for his bright smile that could light up a room and make your troubles disappear.  His joy was palpable. He radiated joy that could only come from God."  I wasn't going to post this project, but as Christmas approaches, I decided that the testimony of his life, and the love of his family and their steadfast faith in God, should be shared as a reflection of the real focus of Christmas.

Various pictures of the project (less build details - this is more about the reason than the project with this post).  Walnut with white oak for the top and bottom.  Finish is Odie's Oil.  Dimensions about 14"x11" and 6 inches tall. 



19 Comments

Impressive work, wonderful if sad reason.    Like the box also.

Ron

Absolutely fantastic, especially the inscription.  

I'm also building a memory box from my neighbor's ashes.  Gonna make a silver oval and have his initials engraved.  

Carey Mitchell

A wonderful tribute, Barb. 

Ryan/// ~sigh~ I blew up another bowl. Moke told me "I made the inside bigger than the outside".

Beautiful BB and a fine tribute!
Nice work Barb - a great way to honor the memory of a special person.
well done and so glad you posted this as an inspiration for us all. im sure the family will cherish this fine gift barb.

working with my hands is a joy,it gives me a sense of fulfillment,somthing so many seek and so few find.-SAM MALOOF.

Thank you everyone for your kind comments. I think this type of project is what is so special about this woodworking hobby for me.  Being able to build custom items for our home is a definite plus, but I find shop time on "gift projects" to be what I love most.  Retreating to the shop is a way to step away from the flow of life and simply focus on the project steps while also thinking about the recipient(s) and praying for them.

Carey - very nice to build the box for your neighbor's ashes (guess I consider any holder for actual ashes as an "urn") -  a silver engraving will be a nice feature.  The box I built will just be for items of sentimental value.  

If your first cut is too short... Take the second cut from the longer end... LBD

LittleBlackDuck - thank you!
Well done, Barb. Your thoughtfulness is apparent throughout the box, particularly in the initial on the lid and the inscription inside. Condolences to your friend. I can’t imagine losing a child at any age, much less at 17. That’s way too soon.
Very nice looking box. Nice little build designs
Ron - thank you. This family has been surrounded by a community that love them.  That doesn't change the grief, but wonderful to see the support.  

Thank you Corelz125.  Learned a few new things along the way (using the inlay kit, Dominoes on miters, hinge install) as I wanted this to be special. 
Very nice, Barb! Well done!

May you have the day you deserve!

Very nice memory box, Barbara!!!

Cheers, Jim ........................ Variety is the spice of life...............Learn something new every day

A wonderful, well thought out box build, wrapped around a true heart. I would think both are satisfying end points. Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year Barb. 
GeorgeWest - thank you.  And wishing you a blessed Christmas and a happy 2025.
Sharp looking and I really like the splines. Good job.
Mel52 - thank you.  I'm glad I built my spline jig as I've used it on a number of projects.  I still struggle with getting the spline material to that "just right" thickness of snug but not too snug.  Lot of cuts and sanding.  

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